I dont want to ask for help

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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby AnaheimCA » Mon Mar 11, 2013 2:07 pm

Even adults ask for help when we need it. Nobody has all the answers and just because you want to be grown up and solve it on your own sometimes there are things you dont understand that your parents and teachers can help you with. Trust that we are looking out for you and tell the people that care about you.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby MizCeeDub » Mon Mar 11, 2013 6:33 pm

AnaheimCA wrote :
> Even adults ask for help when we need it. Nobody has all the answers and
> just because you want to be grown up and solve it on your own sometimes
> there are things you dont understand that your parents and teachers can
> help you with. Trust that we are looking out for you and tell the people
> that care about you.
True... everyone needs help, regardless of our age. Never hurts to just ask...
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby Bulls6 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:09 am

I never wanted to ask for help when I was younger because I thought that is what adults do and i wanted to be an adult really really bad. I would hide all of my problems and act like my life was perfect because I thought thats what adults do so if I trick them into thinking I have no problems then they will respect me like an adult. I would bottle up all of my issues and deal with them just like a kid would, the wrong way. I made some seriously bad choices that changed a lot of things and if I was only willing to be a kid and ask for help and know things would have been a lot more different.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby MizCeeDub » Wed Mar 20, 2013 12:58 pm

Bulls6 wrote :
> I never wanted to ask for help when I was younger because I thought that is
> what adults do and i wanted to be an adult really really bad. I would hide
> all of my problems and act like my life was perfect because I thought thats
> what adults do so if I trick them into thinking I have no problems then
> they will respect me like an adult. I would bottle up all of my issues and
> deal with them just like a kid would, the wrong way. I made some seriously
> bad choices that changed a lot of things and if I was only willing to be a
> kid and ask for help and know things would have been a lot more different.
We learn and teach from our mistakes. Thanks for sharing that.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby LoveMass » Wed Apr 24, 2013 9:55 am

Dont let anyone convince you that asking for help isnt cool or makes you a baby.Thats what troublemakers force you to think so they can keep walking all over you.Stand up for yourself!
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby Victim » Wed Apr 24, 2013 11:59 am

It is hard but I've been through it and do a blog saying how I coped and little tips. Feel free to check it out and contact me on there however I can help I will. It's on tumbler and the name is bullyvictim.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby MizCeeDub » Wed Apr 24, 2013 6:10 pm

You HAVE to ask for help. I learned a little too late. Now I live day by day trying to heal the torment and abuse I endured. Please, ask for help! This site is a great way to be heard, get idea's, ask for advice, and to meet other people who are going through similar things!
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby Thegets67 » Mon Apr 29, 2013 9:57 am

Just tell your teacher what's happening. If they don't do anything, then go to the principal.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby DoraLynn » Tue Apr 30, 2013 9:33 am

Don't feel embarrassed to ask for help. If something needs to be handled, let an adult know. It does not make you any less of a person to ask for help. Please. Before things get any worse. You need to get someone attention and alert them of what is going on!
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby HighHeels2Flats » Thu May 30, 2013 9:26 am

Send your principal or teacher an anonymous letter explaining what happens at specific times so they are aware of it. Hopefully they can catch him. When it comes up... the anonymous letter could have been from anyone that had seen it before and was concerned enough to inform the school.

If not: just tell your teachers. If he beats you up he'll most likely be suspended!

Good luck.
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