I dont want to ask for help

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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby pinkiejay » Mon Jun 03, 2013 8:36 pm

HighHeels2Flats wrote :
> Send your principal or teacher an anonymous letter explaining what happens
> at specific times so they are aware of it. Hopefully they can catch him.
> When it comes up... the anonymous letter could have been from anyone that
> had seen it before and was concerned enough to inform the school.
>
> If not: just tell your teachers. If he beats you up he'll most likely be
> suspended!
>
> Good luck.
This is really good advice. You cant stay silent. You have to tell someone. Try the letter anonymously! Then if that doesn't work, tell your parents. Parents have a way with getting things handled and taken seriously. Good luck to you and please update us if you can!
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby Ftbragsmags » Wed Jun 19, 2013 9:43 am

If you know someone as big as or bigger than him, ask them to protect you or stick up for you. If not you may have to report him to the school.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby 100cotton » Fri Jun 21, 2013 4:30 pm

Big brothers and sisters are great to have. Have them confront your bullies.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby AllIDoIsThink2 » Mon Jun 24, 2013 10:34 am

I would tell on him.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby mysticwater » Mon Jun 24, 2013 5:18 pm

asking for help is sometimes the only way to get a situation that is about to spiral out of control, back into control. You have to ask for help. When you start feeling the pressures and fear, its time to get help. Ask a older sibling, a teacher, nurse, guidance counselor, parent, or even a friend who can tell someone for you.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby Salloydfells » Thu Jun 27, 2013 3:39 pm

In this life you have to (do and/or say something) or things will never change for you. SAY SOMETHING.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby shipshape » Fri Jun 28, 2013 1:12 pm

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, or tattling. Someone needs to know what is going on, especially when things can go really wrong, really fast!
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby 25YearsOld » Wed Jul 24, 2013 10:07 am

Either stand up to him OR tell the teacher... Those are the options unless you want to keep getting bullied.
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby flatonmyface » Mon Jul 29, 2013 2:58 pm

asking for help is sometimes harder than actually being bullied
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Re: I dont want to ask for help

Postby PoppaG » Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:29 pm

flatonmyface wrote :
> asking for help is sometimes harder than actually being bullied

No its not you have to take away the stigma of being considered "weak". Everyone needs help sometimes
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