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Naked picture

Postby Quinny » Fri Apr 20, 2012 7:24 am

I am 16 years old and I am a victim of cyber bullying. I sent a naked picture to a guy I thought was my boyfriend, I really liked him and thought he liked me. He broke up with me a week later and sent my picture to all these people at school. I am so embarrassed and don't want to go to school. I can't tell because if I do, then my parents will find out and I'll be grounded for life! I don't know what to do! :cry:
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Re: Naked picture

Postby anyname09 » Fri Apr 20, 2012 1:43 pm

You just need to be honest with your parents, first and foremost! Don't let a butthead like that get you down, hold your head up and keep telling yourself you are a better person for it! Don't let this guy win, be strong!
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Re: Naked picture

Postby Zoooks » Mon Apr 23, 2012 10:53 am

Quinny I know you are young and its cool to do what your friends do but you cannot be sending naked pictures of yourself to boys. They will never keep it to themselves. I was a young boy once too and we will do and say anything to get you to show us yourself naked. When kids are your age they are very self centered and it will make a boy look cool to his friends if he has naked pictures of you. The damage has been done though so let me tell you what i think you should do. First go to school with your head up and act like it doesnt bother you. Act like you only sent something to your boyfriend and he betrayed your trust so he is wrong. If you show weakness then they will pounce. Whenever anyone makes a comment no matter how bad it hurts just roll your eyes at them and make them feel like they are wasting your time. Some might be more persistant than others so you have to stay strong. You have to accept that your parents will never be ok with their 16 year old daughter doing anything sexual. You cannot expect them to be ok with you doing that so if it gets to them then you should tell them how sorry you are and that you will never do it again but you will have to eat the punishment because you shouldnt have done it in the first place. Remember that pictures are forever when they are on the internet and if you want to have something like that haunt you for years please dont do anything like this ever again.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby Frosty » Wed Apr 25, 2012 1:12 pm

Since you are under the age of 18 if you can prove that the person you sent the nude picture to has published it you can sue the site that published it and ask for the IP address so you can get your justice. That is considered child porn and is taken very seriously in court.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby ShastA » Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:16 pm

Your parents love you Quinny even though they get mad at you. Even if this is the worst thing that has ever happened to you they will still love you. You need their help because they know how to get the right people involved so you dont have naked pictures of yourself on the internet forever. The best thing honey is for you to involve your parents if even you are afraid they will be upset they will definately help you.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby Shhhhh » Tue May 01, 2012 2:15 pm

Nonsense! If you are 16 you can only be grounded for another two years ;) I think if you explain the problem that you are having in full detail you will be shocked at how quick they work to fix your problem. Also you might get in trouble but nothing compared to your bully so if anything do it so they can suffer like you have been.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby hinge » Thu May 03, 2012 3:58 pm

Now what lesson have you learned about trusting 16 year old boys with something as personal as a naked picture? I hope its that boys will always tell you want you want to hear so they get what they want. Most boys stop this when they become men but lots are men still acting like this because they have the IQ of a little boy. Dont ever take naked pictures and send any copies to anyone. If you want to feel sexy and take them just dont send them only show the versions that you have control over to someone. Keeps you out of these crappy problems.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby darkpast » Fri May 18, 2012 3:17 pm

Agreed Quinny 16 year old boys dont know what love it and they will lure any unsuspecting girl into their web of lies then break you heart. You just had to learn it the hard way honey. Believe me that you will never make this mistake again but to ignore what he is doing to you is wrong. You cannot let him get away with passing your photo around to his friends. That is simply illegal and you should really let your parents in on this now before it becomes too much to handle.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby Dadtime » Wed May 23, 2012 3:53 pm

I hope you take everyones advice in here young lady because the damage this boy can do for your future can be stopped if you ask for help from your parents. Everyone makes mistakes and thats why families are here to help.
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Re: Naked picture

Postby calledout » Wed Jun 27, 2012 12:13 pm

Sometimes getting in trouble with your parents is a lot better than letting a high school boy run a muck on your life. What if he dicides to sell them to people at school, or post them on the internet for the world to see? Wouldnt that be worse than getting grounded? At least when you are grounded you know it will end sometime. If something is on the web then you cannot get rid of it sometimes.
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