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Re: Your children

Postby Host5 » Tue Apr 09, 2013 10:12 am

FriendlySteven wrote :
> I think I'll teach my kids that they should always be empathetic towards
> other peoples situations, to be respectful and kind and treat others the
> way they would like to be treated.

The more knowledge and experience you give to your kids the more accepting they will be to their surroundings
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Re: Your children

Postby MizCeeDub » Tue Apr 09, 2013 9:57 pm

Host5 wrote :
> FriendlySteven wrote :
> > I think I'll teach my kids that they should always be empathetic towards
> > other peoples situations, to be respectful and kind and treat others the
> > way they would like to be treated.
>
> The more knowledge and experience you give to your kids the more accepting they will
> be to their surroundings

This is good. I try and remind my kids that we are all different and that the differences between us is what makes others interesting. Instead of bullying them or being around people who bully, embrace their differences and learn from them. Always stay open. They may introduce you to something you never knew about and you can learn something new.
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Re: Your children

Postby BikeEnthusiast4 » Wed Apr 17, 2013 9:43 am

Education on bullying is key I believe. Getting the word out thru blogs and sites like this is how to do now a days.
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Re: Your children

Postby MizCeeDub » Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:34 am

I agree, but we need to create groups. Go to school, evoke inspiration and rally for awareness. Policies need to be implemented and become strict. The more we do physically, the more victims will be willing to talk, bullies will fear the punishments, and teachers and staff will be made to report, handle, and protect while creating a safe learning environment for all students.
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Re: Your children

Postby StMary » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:56 pm

We have strength in numbers and when we all show support they have to listen to us.Please can we all come together and end this for our children. We need policies for treatment and effective punishment if need be
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Re: Your children

Postby 1935WM » Mon Mar 17, 2014 1:45 pm

Distant wrote :
> Kids listen when they know that you have been there before. You have to
> share your stories good or bad with them so they understand. Simply telling
> a child to not do something makes them want to do it because they dont
> understand and are rebelious by nature.

Yep relating to them helps
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