Pleasure/Pain

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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby HappyGuy98 » Tue Feb 26, 2013 10:28 am

I wasn't a big bully but the few instances I do remember, i'd say it was for my own pleasure. mainly I and a group of kids would put down other kids for things like, physical features or clothes or stupid things like that.
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby MizCeeDub » Wed Feb 27, 2013 12:42 pm

HappyGuy98 wrote :
> I wasn't a big bully but the few instances I do remember, i'd say it was
> for my own pleasure. mainly I and a group of kids would put down other kids
> for things like, physical features or clothes or stupid things like that.
Do you still do it for pleasure?
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby RayJ4 » Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:13 pm

If you grown and still bully people for fun then you need to seriously go talk to a doctor cuz you are not right in your head
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby MizCeeDub » Tue Mar 05, 2013 1:19 pm

RayJ4 wrote :
> If you grown and still bully people for fun then you need to seriously go
> talk to a doctor cuz you are not right in your head

Amen... Preach it loud an proud! Surprising how many adults I see bullly others, especially in the work place. Its disgusting, quite frankly... ugh.... Get help and a hug! lol
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby TWallaceP » Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:57 am

I think it gave me more pleasure to bully not because I was in pain.
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby Playbooks » Tue Mar 26, 2013 12:37 pm

TWallaceP wrote :
> I think it gave me more pleasure to bully not because I was in pain.

How long did that pleasure last though?
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby IriseEarly2 » Thu Apr 04, 2013 9:27 am

YesMan wrote :
> Did you bully because it brought you pleasure or did you bully because you
> were in pain?

The easy answer is pleasure..
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby DoraLynn » Fri Apr 26, 2013 7:51 pm

I say to claim respect, be feared, and to be popular.
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby HeavyGlow » Wed May 08, 2013 10:09 am

That's pretty deep, but sounds about right. A lot of teens and young adults may need counseling.
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Re: Pleasure/Pain

Postby dontlikebullies » Tue May 14, 2013 12:34 pm

I think bullies bully because its in their nature. They don't know anything else, at times. I don't think its for a definite pleasure or pain. I think it's a learned behavior. Whether by being abused as a toddler by other kids or by the parents.
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