Were you ever the victim

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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby MakeMeSweat02 » Wed Jun 12, 2013 10:07 am

I was bullied as a young child, but It only made me NOT want to bully others because of the way it made me feel - the exact opposite of many. Maybe I'm special. ;)
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby Nailene » Mon Jun 17, 2013 5:42 pm

I was bullied, and it never made me feel good to hurt someone else, at all. I hate to hurt peoples feelings, or make someone cry, so I could never be mean to anyone else.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby CantUSeeMe » Fri Jul 19, 2013 10:58 am

Not always, but it does happen for that reason. I bullied because I thought it was funny to make fun of people that were different. Now I know that was all BS.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby craycraycris » Tue Jul 23, 2013 6:03 pm

I bullied because the girls I hung out with bullied people and I wanted to be apart of the popular girls. I used to feel really awful afterwards.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby geenKeenL » Fri Jul 26, 2013 10:07 am

I got bullied maybe twice as a kid. I was lucky I guess. Once this kid took my money (I worked 2 months for) to buy a brick of firecrackers from Chinatown... the good ones. Anyways he took my money and never delivered on the firecrackers. I was like 10 Yrs. old so it hurt that 4th of July.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby flatonmyface » Mon Jul 29, 2013 2:57 pm

I used to be left out during recess. I never knew why people disliked me, but I never was likeable.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby HangNout2Nite » Tue Jul 30, 2013 9:56 am

I was a victim once - then I refused to ever be one again.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby LoneJurorsIT » Thu Aug 08, 2013 10:45 am

Circumstances vary in my opinion, but I bet most do bully only because of what had been done to them.
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Re: Were you ever the victim

Postby Nightwatch » Mon Feb 10, 2014 3:55 pm

Sometimes when my older brother would say mean things to me and laugh at me with his friends I would do that to a kid I didnt like. I would try to make my friends laugh at something that was done to me flipping it on someone else. Bullying is learned and we all know that when we see a mean kid he is getting it from some place.
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