Gloria Shuri Nava
Bullying Survivor
Female | San Jose, CA   United States
Bullied for being overweight
Bullying Type: Emotional
Posted By: NotAfraid
1/08/14 12:13 AM
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Gloria Shuri Nava was born in San Jose,California, of a Filipino Mother, and a Mexican Father.Gloria is a youtube phnomenon,best known by her youtube name Glowpinkstah.

I'm 25 years old, and I've been overweight my whole life. I was a chubby kid, but I wasn't big like I am now. (And, no, I won't disclose my weight.) I just really liked food, and I didn't think about consequences. Also, I didn't care that much about the way I looked—but other people did. In middle school, one guy imitated the way my thighs rubbed together when I walked. While it upset me, I realized that it was more his problem than mine.

My boyfriend Ali is 5'10" with friendly blue eyes, a dimpled smile and a fit, muscular body. He's someone you'd expect to see with a really hot, thin woman...not an overweight girl like me.

We've been dating for 18 months, and wherever we go—whether we're walking hand in hand through the mall, airport or down the street in his hometown (Glasgow, Scotland) or mine (San Jose, California)—we get confused looks that say, He can do better than her!

When people say things out loud, their comments range from cruel ("Is he blind?" or "He's only with you to get a green card") to quips such as, "It's great he can see past your looks" or "He's so nice for being with you." I usually respond, "He's not doing me a favor—he's my boyfriend!"

But the worst reactions are from anonymous people online. I have a YouTube channel, Glowpinkstah, with more than 250,000 subscribers, and, as a comic, I review beauty products, answer fan mail, share my edgy brand of humor and details about my life, so they know all about Ali and me. While most are supportive, there are a fair number of bullies.

With Ali's support, I started The Beauty Adjustment, a collaborative video project in which my subscribers help me spread the word that there is no one "normal" way to look or love. Beauty and relationships come in all shapes and sides: brown, yellow, short, tall, thin, fat—and one partner doesn't have to mirror the other. Love is love. That's a lesson that Ali taught me, and now I want to teach it to the rest of the world.;_ylt=A0SO81VoA81SFxAAThNXNyoA;_ylu=X3oDMTEza3FsamVuBHNlYwNzcgRwb3MDMQRjb2xvA2dxMQR2dGlkA1FCQUNLMV8x

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Name: Gloria Shuri Nava
Age: 33
Country: United States
Location: San Jose, CA
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