charlierayne wrote :
> My mom used to nit pick how i ate, dressed, my weight, how I wore my hair,
> how I talked, the grades i made, the friends I had, everything. She didn't
> do it lovingly as a mother guides a daughter, but, meanly, making me
> miserable, self conscious, and when I got older, insecure. I know now that
> it was a form of bullying and when I went to college, found myself doing
> this to my friends, unknowingly, and had to learn the hard way. Im glad I
> was able to learn and unlearn bad habits.
I know exactly what you are saying. I had a similar mom. Im sorry that you had to endure that. I really feel your pain.